DIVORCE NOT
DIVORCE NOT
Dear children of
God, this topic matters so many people in all over the world. The word DIVORCE’
affects many family lives. The lack of love, breaking the covenant,
misunderstanding, unfaithful and dissatisfactions are the main reasons of
divorce in the family lives. From the beginning of creation, God made them male
and female. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to
his wife, and the two shall become one flash. So, they are no longer two but
one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let not man separate. Family
life is a happy and blessed life. But instead of happiness, families indulge
with sorrows, bitterness, enmity, and strife, fits of anger, rivalries, traitor
and sexual immorality, impurity, and sensuality.
One day a lady of 30 years of
old came to Dr. George grain, a journalist and minister of God, to complain
about her husband. She wanted to have divorce from her husband, as he is good
for nothing. She made complained thousand and one things about her husband. And
she wanted to divorce him, before that she wanted to take revenge against him.
She told that I will give him maximum troubles before I get divorce from him.
Dr. George grain was patiently listen to her about her complains and he said to
her, may I give you some advice? Pleas3e try to do it before you get divorce
from your husband. She had agreed to do it according to his advice. He said that you might have given him, more
troubles and tribulations. Now you go to your house and act before him, as she
is more affectionate. You act and say to him that how he is more pleasing and
loving person in the world.Each and every thing of his
doings you just appreciate him, and say how he loves her and her children.
Every time you humble yourselves and obey, and you too show your love and
pleasing manners. By your love, you make known to him that without her he
cannot live in this world. Suddenly one day you put a bomb and bombard and say
to him, I am going to divorce you. That
is the good thing to avenge him. This idea was very apt to avenge her husband,
so she went with anger to avenge her husband.Truly she was acted lovingly
to her husband as he said. She showed her husband, love and concern for two
months. She has listened to him and obeyed him, without any arguments. She gave
him what he wanted, and humbled her in all her ways. After, two months, she did
not turn back to the Dr. GEORGE GRAIN; so, he communicated to her through phone
and asked that are you ready to divorce her husband? What? Divorce! No! No! Now
truly I love my husband ever before. Now
we both are very happy and enjoying life ever before. Truly she had acted only
to her husband, but that very action brought great change in the life her husband.
Now the love that which was dead become resurrected in both of them and the
true relationship sprang up in them. Dear friends, now days, many families are
broken and the relationship between husband and wife become a question. So, the
divorce became familiar and fashionable in the modern society. Wife and husband
are complaining each other about wrong relationship with other persons, dating
with others, misunderstandings, and indulge with wrong habits. These are many
reasons bring breaks in the families and they started to lack joy and happiness.
If you find out many weakness and short comings, and sins from your partner,
try to accept them as they are and love them as Christ loved you and forgave
your sins. Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate
hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another
and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord
has forgiven you , so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love,
which binds everything together in perfect harmony. Let the peace of Christ
rule in your hearts and minds to which indeed you were called in one body.
Above all, love one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
Likewise, wife, be subject to your own husband, so that even if some do not
obey God’s word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wife,
When they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be
external- the braiding of hair and the putting of gold jewelry, or the clothing
you wear- but let adoring be the hidden person of the heart with the
imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very
precious. For this is how holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves,
by submitting to their husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord.
Dear brothers and sisters, our
family should be a happy family and be an exemplary family in loving and caring
each other. God wants us to love each other not before marriage, but after
marriage. Before marriage some people may say that I will sacrifice myself for
you, and do anything for you. [These are cine dialogues] what really wanted
after marriage they won’t do it, so, there arises problems and divorces. Stop
talking about each other’s weakness, shortcomings, and sins. Try to love and
forgive each other as Christ did for us. Then happiness spring in families and
the word divorce vanish away. If you are ready to love and forgive your
partner, then happiness will spring in your family and divorce will vanish. With love of God, you can share your joy and
happiness in your family with your friends and relatives. If you are blessed,
please send your wordings to my email ID. revsjc@gmail.com, revsjc12@hotmail.com, johnchelliah857@yahoo.com,
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