HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

HAPPY WEDDING LIFE.

Dear friends, people used to spent more money on wedding with many good dreams and expectations. But all of sudden our dreams of wedding life become a broken one. Why this happens? Because the lack of understanding about our marriage’s aim. Let us understand first the God’s plan and purpose of our marriage. Then the lord God said, “It is not good that man/ woman should be alone. I will make him/ her helper [partner] fit for him/her. First thing marriage is from the lord God who makes plan purpose for our family life. Second thing the man said “this at last is bone of bones and flesh of flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man. Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. One flesh means husband and wife should understand each other to prepare each other to help and satisfy them. Sharing the love and satisfying the wants of each other. Thirdly to raise godly and God feared generation. God’s plan and purpose of our marriage is to raise godly children. Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.

1.      Marriage is a holy covenant:- covenant is not simply an agreement between two parties or persons. It is a holy or Sacramental act by which two parties or persons commit towards each other and promise to each other to keep their holy vows that have been taken in the presence of God. Christian marriage is most honorable because husband wife should love each other from the depth of their heart and mind. And they committed each other to help and be concern, obey and share love between them. There should be a transparency like an open book. In the covenant, marriage life should be a holy one and loving one. Illegal relationship breaks the happy family life. They should have confident with each other. Doubts and misunderstanding breaks the happiness in the family.

2.      Fit helper to each other: - wedded life is happier one; when they fit to help in all circumstances and situations. Fit helper not only in happiness but also in sorrowful situations. Scarified help in sickness and bad, anxiety situations.  Living together in all situations should be in God’s plan and purpose of our life. People used to spend more time before marriage through cell phone and internet and other Medias; but after marriage find difficult to spend time with their loving partners. Spend time with your loving partner and loving children. Help each other to reach his or her aim and goal. Next thing to help each other is to forgive each other. Everybody has short comings so it is tend to forgive each other from the bottom of heart like Christ has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other as the lord Jesus has forgiven you. And above all these put on love, which binds ever thing together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts to which indeed you were called. 5 tips to reveal your love to be fit helper. Appreciate each other’s with sincerer heart even in small things- your dress is nice, new taste in your cooking.  Listen to your wife’s or husband’s words. Often you make happy your partner with surprise gifts. Give always helping hands. Hold hands each other often to reveal your love and spend time together.

3.      Marriage is a sign of God’s blessing: - a prudent wife or husband from the lord. He who finds a wife or her who finds a husband finds a good thing and obtains favor from the lord. Husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

4.      Happy wedding life is not fantasy or dream world life but it is all reality. TV, internet and all other Medias shows that happy wedded life is like singing, eating and enjoying life. But happy wedded life is more than that. Living together and facing together life, that is reality. Wife or husband may be expecting her or his partner should be hero or heroine. But in reality everything may be entirely different. But he or she is ready to accept the fact in the real happy wedded life. Here comes the scarified love to accept each other as they are. Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God and whoever loves has been born of God and knows of God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. Dear friends we wish you all a happy and blessed wedded life bring more fruits to the world.