DIVORCE NOT

Dear children of God, this topic matters so many people in all over the world. The word DIVORCE’ affects many family lives. The lack of love, breaking the covenant, misunderstanding, unfaithful and dissatisfactions are the main reasons of divorce in the family lives. From the beginning of creation, God made them male and female. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flash. So, they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let not man separate. Family life is a happy and blessed life. But instead of happiness, families indulge with sorrows, bitterness, enmity, and strife, fits of anger, rivalries, traitor and sexual immorality, impurity, and sensuality.
One day a lady of 30 years of old came to Dr. George grain, a journalist and minister of God, to complain about her husband. She wanted to have divorce from her husband, as he is good for nothing. She made complained thousand and one things about her husband. And she wanted to divorce him, before that she wanted to take revenge against him. She told that I will give him maximum troubles before I get divorce from him. Dr. George grain was patiently listen to her about her complains and he said to her, may I give you some advice? Pleas3e try to do it before you get divorce from your husband. She had agreed to do it according to his advice.  He said that you might have given him, more troubles and tribulations. Now you go to your house and act before him, as she is more affectionate. You act and say to him that how he is more pleasing and loving person in the world.Each and every thing of his doings you just appreciate him, and say how he loves her and her children. Every time you humble yourselves and obey, and you too show your love and pleasing manners. By your love, you make known to him that without her he cannot live in this world. Suddenly one day you put a bomb and bombard and say to him, I am going to divorce you.  That is the good thing to avenge him. This idea was very apt to avenge her husband, so she went with anger to avenge her husband.Truly she was acted lovingly to her husband as he said. She showed her husband, love and concern for two months. She has listened to him and obeyed him, without any arguments. She gave him what he wanted, and humbled her in all her ways. After, two months, she did not turn back to the Dr. GEORGE GRAIN; so, he communicated to her through phone and asked that are you ready to divorce her husband? What? Divorce! No! No! Now truly I love my husband ever before.  Now we both are very happy and enjoying life ever before. Truly she had acted only to her husband, but that very action brought great change in the life her husband. Now the love that which was dead become resurrected in both of them and the true relationship sprang up in them. Dear friends, now days, many families are broken and the relationship between husband and wife become a question. So, the divorce became familiar and fashionable in the modern society. Wife and husband are complaining each other about wrong relationship with other persons, dating with others, misunderstandings, and indulge with wrong habits. These are many reasons bring breaks in the families and they started to lack joy and happiness. If you find out many weakness and short comings, and sins from your partner, try to accept them as they are and love them as Christ loved you and forgave your sins. Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you , so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts and minds to which indeed you were called in one body. Above all, love one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Likewise, wife, be subject to your own husband, so that even if some do not obey God’s word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wife, When they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external- the braiding of hair and the putting of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear- but let adoring be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious. For this is how holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord.
Dear brothers and sisters, our family should be a happy family and be an exemplary family in loving and caring each other. God wants us to love each other not before marriage, but after marriage. Before marriage some people may say that I will sacrifice myself for you, and do anything for you. [These are cine dialogues] what really wanted after marriage they won’t do it, so, there arises problems and divorces. Stop talking about each other’s weakness, shortcomings, and sins. Try to love and forgive each other as Christ did for us. Then happiness spring in families and the word divorce vanish away. If you are ready to love and forgive your partner, then happiness will spring in your family and divorce will vanish.  With love of God, you can share your joy and happiness in your family with your friends and relatives. If you are blessed, please send your wordings to my email ID. revsjc@gmail.com, revsjc12@hotmail.com, johnchelliah857@yahoo.com,